Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Comments on article on Bruno Bettelheim

I am posting a recent (16 March) comment on the above article - together with my response - in case the person commenting missed my response. Unfortunately, the original comment appeared under a different post, so it could easily have been missed. Since these two comments were posted I posted another article on Bettelheim, originally published in the Conscious Living Seminars Journal, Volume 3 Number 9 (September 2003) - See post "Bruno Bettelheim and mental disorders again".

Anonymous said...
Hello Andrew,For reasons I can't clearly understand myself, I've hesitated to contact you after reading your piece on Bettelheim. Yet I see by your website and your personal story that we are much aligned. I too have been trying to tell my story, mostly to myself, in written form, starting with a "refrigerator mother" and six years at the Orthogenic School (1948-1954), and going through my life in what I call an "inner chronicle" that traces the rhythms of both my inner life and the outer life I share with my culture and my species. I've hesitated to email you just as I've hesitated to show my work to anyone except my wife and my brother. Can you suggest a way that you and I (and perhaps your organizaion) could launch a partnership to share our stories in some way?Steve Bellstrom
Thu Mar 16, 09:18:22 AM 2006
Andrew Reiner said...
Dear SteveThank you for your comment. I felt I needed to respond immediately though I don't, as yet, have an answer for you (regarding launching a partnership to share our stories). I would be happy to have an email from you and perhaps something may ensue from our correspondence. In any case, I will give the matter some more thought.I would be particularly interested in your experiences before, during and after your time at the Orthogenic School. With regard to the concept of a "refrigerator mother", you may have seen my comments on this on the Conscious Living Seminars website (www.consciousliving.com - see September 2003 Journal).In any case, I would be pleased to hear more from you. Perhaps, for the sake of confidentiality - at this stage anyway - we could persue this in a more private correspondence (ie email)?We'll "talk" again.
Thu Mar 16, 09:47:54 AM 2006

Monday, March 20, 2006

Conscious relationships - An experience of intimacy

Harbans, Tracy and I feel very moved by the experience of the seminar that finished last Sunday night ( 12 March). With all the planning and hard work that go into creating optimal conditions for the sort of experience we know to be possible, it still comes down to whatever it is that everyone brings with them into the seminar room. We described it as an invitation to a banquet. The preparation of the food, as well as the cleaning and tidying and so on are a labour of love. The invitation goes out with a certain intention. Our intention was for you to have a certain kind of experience, a special kind of feeling. It is also a part of our intention that the food is nourishing as well as being merely enjoyable. The rest is up to those who accept the invitation.

It seems to us that everyone who accepted our invitation enjoyed the meal and received nourishment from it. It was tangible and the feedback we received nourished us in turn. As we see it, we all hunger for love, we all hunger for connection. It seems to require no more than a willingness to try something a little different from the norm to have such an experience. Why then is it so rare in the "real world"?

In my original attempt to describe the experience of the seminar - which I wrote the day after, on Monday, 13th - I tried to articulate what I felt had taken place, at the spiritual level, as each person attending connected with that special place inside themselves that enabled them to connect with that special place inside the others. The feedback from Harbans was that, in putting it into words, I was detracting from the experience. So I have deleted it. She is right. Some things are meant to be experienced, not talked about. I do, however, speak for all three of us (Harbans, Tracy and myself) when I say that it was a very special time for us, too. Thank you for allowing us to share this part of your journey.

Friday, March 17, 2006

Healing depression

I have just created a new blog! Check out http://healingdepression.blogspot.com The new site is specifically about ways of healing depression - its emphasis is on healing rather than prevention or causes. I intend to make it positive, focusing on growth, not on finding excuses for staying still. Enjoy!

Thursday, March 16, 2006

Bruno Bettelheim and "mental disorders" again

Because of the interest generated by my earlier post on Bruno Bettelheim, I have decided to reprint, in full, an article I wrote in September 2003 (on "nature and nurture"), together with the accompanying editorial.

(From: CLS Journal Volume 3 Number 9)

Editorial (23 September, 2003)


Today my amazing grandchildren turned one. “Every child comes with the message that God is not yet discouraged”, wrote Rabindranath Tagore. “A baby is God’s opinion that life should go on”, wrote Carl Sandburg.

This month’s journal consists of a lengthy article on “nature and nurture”, the last time I intend to broach the subject. It is an amazing testament to human folly that we talk and write about such things.

But the birth, one year ago, of Hannah and Veronika – ten minutes apart – alerted me to the fact that, in our society, this issue is still alive – indeed, the idea of genetic inheritance has actually become an article of faith.

It is to the preservation of my grandchildren’s humanity that I dedicate the article. The environment they inhabit is – and will continue to be – an absolutely crucial influence on their growing personalities. I have no doubt that they inherited many characteristics from their parents and grandparents. But the crucial factor that will determine whether their vitality and joy are preserved is the world in which they will grow up.

I sometimes wish I could protect them from this world, with its violence and vulgarity. But that is silly. Like the rest of us, they have no choice but to live in the world. And the fact that they were born is evidence, as Tagore said, “that God is not yet discouraged”. Who am I to hold a contrary view?

Andrew Reiner

Nature and nurture again: A question of values (written between 1 August and 23 September, 2003)

I feel embarrassed that I ever raised this issue (Conscious Living Seminars Journal for April 2003). I had completed less than two months of first year Psychology (towards the end of April, 1971) when I wrote my first ever essay on this subject. I concluded what I then thought was obvious: neither nature, nor nurture, but an “interaction” between the two. An “interaction” does not mean an “addition”. It does not mean that genes contribute a certain percentage while environment contributes the rest. It means that no organism – including the human organism – is either conceived or born in a vacuum. It also means that “the environment” (including the physical, human, social and cultural environment) begins to influence whatever is genetically determined AND VICE VERSA from the very moment of conception. The human brain, for example, the Central Nervous System (CNS) and the Autonomic Nervous System (ANS) develop in the mother’s womb in accordance with both the genetic “code” and the physical environment provided by the mother. The latter is influenced by the environment the mother inhabits, her relationship with her partner (as well as with her own parents and others) and, indeed, by the entire culture in which she and her family are embedded. After the baby is born (after nine long months of heredity/environment interactions of a bewildering and unpredictable complexity) these processes continue. The baby’s innate (not merely genetic) characteristics act on the mother – as well as on the rest of “the environment” (the father, siblings and others) – to elicit certain kinds of behaviour. How the mother responds depends on a multitude of factors, including the baby’s “temperament”, her own “personality” and the opportunities and pressures provided by the economic, political and social structure that surrounds the family. While it is undoubtedly true – no, it is NECESSARILY true – that the young child’s developing “personality”, “intelligence” and behaviour are, at all stages, influenced by whatever genetic “code” she has inherited from her parents, it is also true that “the environment” is also doing so AND INFLUENCING AND ALTERING THE CHILD’S BRAIN, CNS AND ANS – AND EVEN HER GENES – IN THE PROCESS. The brain is not a genetically pre-determined given, either at conception or at birth. It continues to develop and to change as the baby grows into a child and as the child develops to become an adult (the converse is also true; the “environment” is not a predetermined “given” either but responds to whatever it is that the baby brings with her into the world).
The question, “nature or nurture” (or the related question, “how much nature, how much nurture?”), is a nonsensical, meaningless one. The real question is “Why does anyone ask such questions?” And that is when we realise that it is, all of it, “a question of values”.
In my Psychology I essay in April, 1971 I concluded that “intelligence” (at least as measured by IQ tests) was the result of the interaction between heredity and environment. While the case for both sorts of influences seemed strong, the “genetic hypothesis” seemed almost unassailable owing to research on twins, especially monozygotic (MZ) or identical twins (that is, twins with identical genes – because they come from the same ovum). The evidence from correlations of IQs of MZ twins reared apart appeared to be so strong and came from such impeccable sources that the environmentalists were finding things difficult. Of particular significance was the research of the eminent British Psychologist, Sir Cyril Burt. The “heritability” of IQ was said to be 80%. Environmental factors accounted for 20% of the “variance”. His findings were used by Arthur Jensen and others to argue that racial differences in intelligence, for example between African Americans (“Negroes”) and other Americans, were largely genetically determined.
I’m horrified to recall that, in 1973, in my third year, I examined the so-called “evidence” and agreed with Jensen’s “hypothesis”. The following year (1974) the whole genetic edifice came crashing down with the publication of Leon J Kamin’s “The science and politics of IQ” (Kamin, 1974; see also Kamin and Eysenck, 1981). Kamin spent a year examining the original research – including that conducted by Burt – supporting the genetic hypothesis. He re-did the statistical calculations to check them for accuracy. His findings should have ended the debate for all time. He found countless mathematical errors, as well as accidental and deliberate distortions and fabrications, to force the so-called data to fit the researchers’ conviction that intelligence was genetically determined.
He found that the studies were full of experimenter bias, “identical twins reared apart” often lived in the same neighbourhood, under similar circumstances, went to the same school and stayed in contact with one another. Sir Cyril Burt invented “data” supposedly gathered by phantom research assistants (that is, assistants who did not exist) and “corrected” data that had been legitimately gathered to fit the genetic hypothesis.
Kamin’s book was published in 1974. I read it in 1976 when I was preparing a “practical demonstration” tutorial on IQ tests for first year Psychology students and other Tutors at Macquarie University. How did the scientific world respond to Kamin’s findings? By abandoning the project? By committing funds to research the environmental (familial, social, cultural, legal, political, economic) factors affecting “intelligence”, or “mental health” or “personality”? No, the effort to prove “the genetic hypothesis” – no longer a “hypothesis” today, I might add, but a “proven fact” (!!!) – was redoubled. Today, “scientists” wanting money for research better make sure that it’s genetic research they’re interested in. “That’s where all the money is”, one said recently.

Nowhere is this value-laden and ideologically driven “scientific research” more destructive than in the area of “mental health”. Beginning with definitions of “schizophrenia” and other “diseases” or “illnesses” (or, more recently, “disorders”) which are subjective, ambiguous and untenable, funded by drug companies and others with a vested interest in the results, people calling themselves “scientists” have undertaken poorly conducted research to prove the genetic causes of these “brain diseases” (eg through twin studies). In 1990, Mary Boyle, Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of East London, did for “schizophrenia” what Kamin had done for “intelligence” [“Schizophrenia: A scientific delusion?” (1990). In 2002 she brought out a second, revised edition, summarising research up to and including the year 2000]. When put under the microscope, she discovered, there is not one so-called “scientific” study of “schizophrenia” that establishes either that “it” actually exists as a physical illness or that “it” is a “hereditary illness”.

When Edward Shorter wrote his “History of Psychiatry” in 1997 (Shorter, 1997; see July Journal) he simply cited the genetic studies uncritically, sarcastically denounced the environmentalist position AND IGNORED MARY BOYLE’S SCHOLARLY BOOK ON THE SUBJECT (as he ignored Bruno Bettelheim’s work at the Orthogenic School). Earlier this year, Matt Ridley’s book, “Nature via nurture” uncritically cited Shorter’s references – with clear indications that he had not even bothered to read the original papers – ignored Mary Boyle’s book, devoted one paragraph to Bruno Bettelheim in which he managed to get almost everything wrong, and sarcastically denounced those who claimed that “schizophrenia” and other forms of “mental illness” had anything to do with what he called “psychosocial factors” (Ridley, 2003: 102-105).

In spite of the seductive title of his book, he claimed that these “diseases” are genetic in origin with “psychosocial factors” (including the way children are treated by their parents) playing either a minimal role or NONE AT ALL (p105). Leon Kamin gets one sentence, but fails to get a mention in the index or the notes. The book (The science and politics of IQ) is not even cited. This is extraordinary stuff, from a populariser of science who is widely read and quoted in the media (there is a very good, but far too lenient, review of “Nature via nurture” in a recent – 14 August – issue of The New York Review of Books).

During the 1930s and 1940s Frieda Fromm-Reichmann worked with a number of people diagnosed as suffering from schizophrenia at Chestnut Lodge in Rockville, Maryland, in the United States – with dramatic results. A recent biography describes her life and work in considerable detail (Gail Hornstein, “To redeem one person is to redeem the world: The life of Frieda Fromm-Reichmann”, 2000). One of her most famous cases was Joanne Greenberg, who was diagnosed with schizophrenia at the age of 16 and spent four years at Chestnut Lodge. In 1964, under the pseudonym Hannah Green, she published an account of her stay at the Lodge, her work with “Dr Fried” and her recovery (“I never promised you a rose garden”). The book has become a best-seller (it has sold almost six million copies) and is one of the reasons why Fromm-Reichmann is remembered today. Shorter and Ridley both mention Fromm-Reichmann and Chestnut Lodge, Shorter even referring to Hannah Green’s book “I never promised you a rose garden”. They pour unrelenting scorn on Fromm-Reichmann’s concept of the “schizophrenogenic mother” (an unforgivable term she used in a 1948 article in the journal Psychiatry), but totally ignore the fact that she successfully treated people so emotionally damaged that they were considered incurable (Fromm-Reichmann, 1948; Hornstein, 2000). Why do they do this? For the very simple reason that if “schizophrenia” and other severe “mental disorders” can be “cured” or healed by “psychotherapy” then the concept of a genetically caused disease of the brain requiring medication becomes untenable, while the concept of emotional damage resulting from early childhood (or later) experience of trauma gains credibility. Indeed, to anyone not totally brainwashed by the biobabble of the medical myth, the idea that people said to be suffering from “schizophrenia”, “bipolar disorder” or “depression” have a disease of the brain that has been inherited from the parents through their genes, sounds so incredible that one is justified in doubting the sanity of those doctors, psychiatrists and others who speak and write this way.

There is more. Shorter and Ridley both caricature Fromm-Reichmann for “blaming the mother” and for creating unnecessary pain and guilt for a whole generation of mothers by deliberately ignoring the “fact” that “schizophrenia” is a hereditary disease having little if anything to do with parenting. Ridley accepts the evidence cited by people like Fromm-Reichmann that the mothers of “schizophrenics” are, indeed, often cold and rejecting but explains it away as a natural reaction of mothers when confronted by their “sick” babies (Ridley, 2003: 103). His caricature of Bruno Bettelheim is even worse. Bettelheim is accused of ignoring the “fact” that autism is a genetically caused disease (“the heritability of autism is 90%”) and of inventing the ghastly term “refrigerator mother” to describe cold, rejecting mothers who are, supposedly, responsible for causing their children’s autism. There is not a single reference to Bettelheim’s voluminous writings to substantiate this claim. The sole reference is to a one-sided biography of Bettelheim published in 1997 by Richard Pollak. Ridley ignores other, more favourable biographies as well as Bettelheim’s voluminous writings spread over half a century! I had read a review of Pollak’s book in The New York Review of Books where this awful term (“refrigerator mother”) was used and wondered how a person of Bettelheim’s humanity could possibly write about mothers using such language.
Now, reading Nature via nurture, I was stunned to find the term attributed to Bettelheim again. So I searched the internet and found over 400 references to the term “refrigerator mother”, all but a handful attributing it to Bruno Bettelheim and virtually all angrily denouncing him for “blaming the mother” for a “disease” (autism) that has been “proven” to be hereditary. I spent days on the net reading this material, looking in vain for a reference to one of Bettelheim’s numerous journal articles or books, so that I could find out where and when he used this phrase. I searched in vain. There was not one, single reference. So I began to read through my Bettelheim library (I have most of his books), sent my poor nephew into the libraries of both the University of Sydney and UNSW to locate and photocopy Bettelheim’s articles on the subject of autism in various scientific journals which appeared during the 1940s, ’50s and ’60s and eventually satisfied myself that no such term was ever used by Bettelheim.

In addition, in many of the articles he wrote for scientific journals during the 1940s and ’50s, as well as his in-depth study of autism in a book published in 1967 (The empty fortress), he went into considerable detail about the possible causes of “infantile autism” in the children who lived at the Orthogenic School. He discussed, at great length, the genetic and environmental explanations common both then (1940s to the 1960s) and now and gave cogent reasons for REJECTING BOTH AS SIMPLISTIC. While he certainly described the parents (especially mothers) of the children at his school as cold and rejecting, he rejected outright the idea that this could be “the cause” of the children’s autism. He recognised that the mothers’ (and fathers’) behaviour was undoubtedly, at least in part, a reaction to the particular child. But he rejected the equally one-sided argument that autism was genetically determined and that the only reason for the parents’ rejecting behaviour was the strangeness of their baby. He cited the example of two pairs of MZ twins, for example, where ONLY ONE MEMBER OF THE PAIR WAS AUTISTIC. This, in itself, rules the genetic hypothesis out, since MZ twins have the same genes. He also presented several in-depth studies (over a hundred pages for a boy he called “Joey”) of autistic children treated at the Orthogenic School with intensive “psychotherapy” who were cured without resorting to medication (some were not cured and some were only partly cured). He was unable to solve the puzzle of the precise mechanism at work and left it to others to study the subject further.

All of this is ignored by the hundreds of people who have put material on the internet. It is ignored by Ridley’s “scientific” (if popular) book. It was Leo Kanner and his co-worker, Leon Eisenberg who, while not using the term “refrigerator mother”, indicated that the parents – especially the mothers – of the dozens of autistic children they had studied between 1943 and 1955 were unusually cold and rejecting. The phrase can be traced back to the writings of Kanner and Eisenberg, even though they did not use these exact words.
Kanner (1949: 421), began by acknowledging that it was “a hazardous undertaking to try to present a composite characterisation” of the 55 couples he had observed. “Nevertheless”, he went on, “the vast majority of the parents of the autistic children have features in common which it would be impossible to disregard”. Kanner wrote that what struck him “again and again” was “a mechanisation of human relationships”, with the parents treating each other “with faultless respect”. He described the relationships as “rather cold and formal”. The parents mostly described themselves and each other as “undemonstrative” and “are, on the whole, polite and dignified people who are impressed by seriousness and disdainful of anything that smacks of frivolity”.
What really struck Kanner, however, was the relationship between parent and child:
“The parents’ behaviour toward the children must be seen to be fully appreciated. Maternal lack of genuine warmth is often conspicuous in the first visit to the clinic. As they come up the stairs, the child trails forlornly behind the mother, who does not bother to look back. The mother accepts the invitation to sit down in the waiting room, while the child sits, stands or wanders about at a distance. Neither makes a move toward the other. Later, in the office, when the mother is asked under some pretext to take the child on her lap, she usually does so in a dutiful stilted manner, holding the child upright and using the arms solely for the mechanical purpose of maintaining him in his position. I saw only one mother of an autistic child who proceeded to embrace him warmly and bring her face close to his” (Kanner, 1949: 422).
Kanner went on to say that the parents had themselves “been reared sternly in emotional refrigerators” (Kanner, 1949: 423). Kanner went into considerable detail in describing several cases, concluding that the parents “lacked the warmth which the babies needed” (Kanner, 1949: 424). Finally, the paragraph responsible for the “refrigerator mother” accusations:
“Most of the patients were exposed from the beginning to parental coldness, obsessiveness and a mechanical type of attention to material needs only … They were kept neatly in refrigerators which did not defrost. Their withdrawal seems to be an act of turning away from such a situation to seek comfort in solitude” (Kanner, 1949: 425).
By 1955 Kanner’s sample had increased to “more than 120 children”. Writing with Leon Eisenberg in 1956, Kanner wrote that in a control group of parents they did “not find the dramatically evident detachment, obsessiveness and coldness that is almost a universal feature of parents of autistic children” (Eisenberg and Kanner, 1956: 561). They acknowledged that “similarly frigid parents are seen who do not give rise to autistic progeny” and that “some 10 per cent of the parents do not fit the stereotype”. The term “emotional frigidity” was used in the next sentence, however, to describe “the typical autistic family” and followed by a ghastly story of a baby who was “raised ‘scientifically’ – that is, not to be picked up for crying, except on schedule”, who “was isolated from children and almost all adults until he was well over two” (Eisenberg and Kanner, 1956: 561). The authors felt that the case, although “extreme”, could “serve as a paradigm of the ‘emotional refrigeration’ that has been the common lot of autistic children” (Eisenberg and Kanner, 1956: 562).
In spite of the above, the authors then go on – over five paragraphs – to conclude that “this emotional configuration in the home … is not sufficient in itself to result in … (the) appearance (of autism)”. They continue: “There appears to be some way in which the children are different from the beginning of their extrauterine existence”. And, finally: “Present knowledge leads to the inference that innate as well as experiential factors conjoin to produce the clinical picture. It remains for future investigation to uncover the precise mode of operation of the pathogenic factors as a basis for rational treatment” (Eisenberg and Kanner, 1956: 564).
That is to say, they, too, like Bettelheim, rejected the idea that the causation was simply one-way, that is, that the parents had “caused” the autism in their children. The same parents sometimes had other, non-autistic children, for example. Other parents, known to the authors, who appeared to be similar to the parents of autistic children, did not produce autism in their children. And some of the autistic children they had studied did NOT have cold, or rejecting, parents. They, too, acknowledged that they were unable to solve the puzzle and they, too, left it to future researchers to solve it.

In contrast to the measured tones evident in the works of Kanner, Eisenberg, Bettelheim, Boyle and Kamin, the hundreds of people who posted material on the internet (as well as Shorter and Ridley) are sarcastic; many are extremely angry, at times emotionally violent or even hysterical. Why is this? There were even some who reacted strongly to the reissue of Virginia Axline’s classic work Dibs: In search of self (1964) in 1990 and accused Axline, of all people, of using the concept of a “refrigerator mother”. Last year there was even a film called “Refrigerator mothers” which, unfortunately, I did not see. According to the producers and reviewers, however, the idea was, clearly, to show that there was nothing unusual – and certainly not blameworthy – about these mothers. As I wrote earlier (see March 2003 journal) our society seems to have become obsessed with exonerating parents, teachers, schools and our society’s institutions: “Thou shalt not feel guilty” is the new motto.

But much of the debate about “mental illness”, including “schizophrenia”, “autism” and “depression” is conducted in such an emotionally-charged atmosphere that it is clear that “science” has nothing to do with any of it. On the one side are people – including myself – who have become aware, through personal experience, of the terrible emotional damage that can result from our experiences with our families, schools and the world-of-work, not to mention experiences with both government and non-government bureaucracies, wars, revolutions and so on. On the other are those who seem to feel unable to accept the damage caused by real life events and need ideologies in the form of beliefs and theories to protect them from pain and guilt. The genetic hypothesis serves this function, viz to protect and to comfort. Finally, there are vested interests keeping the whole issue alive to ensure the ongoing sale of their latest medical cures. In this environment, truth is bound to be the first casualty.

An interesting exception to these emotionally-charged writings is an article on autism I found on the net, written by Martha Herbert, Treasurer of the Council for Responsible Genetics (CRG) and Chloe Silverman (www.gene-watch.org). They do not, so far as I can see, consider what happens within the family in early childhood as being linked to autism. They do, however, look at other “environmental” factors, in particular a mercury-based vaccine preservative called thimerosal, added to the infant immunisation schedule in the early 1990s, COINCIDING WITH A STEEP RISE IN THE NUMBERS OF CHILDREN BEING DIAGNOSED AS AUTISTIC.

What seems to have happened is this. In 1943, Leo Kanner described eleven children with odd and disturbed language, poor connectedness and repetitive disturbed behaviour (Kanner, 1943). He coined the term “early infantile autism” to describe this (Kanner, 1944). Later (1949), he described several more cases, together with the observed characteristics of their parents. In the meantime, a small number of autistic children were treated at Bruno Bettelheim’s Orthogenic School in Chicago and a small number continued to be treated by Bettelheim’s staff during the 1950s and ’60s. A grant enabled Bettelheim to study these children, their family backgrounds and the treatment the School provided and to report on them. He summarised his findings, as well as the then-available research, in 1967 (The empty fortress). He considered the different theories, including that of Rimland, who took – and still takes – a biological approach to autism. As I wrote above, he concluded that, at that point in time (1967) it was simply not possible to untangle the heredity-environment mix, though it was clear to him that both were important.

During the 1940s, ’50s and ’60s, when people like Eisenberg, Kanner and Bettelheim were reporting on the family backgrounds of autistic children, only 3 in 10,000 were said to be “autistic” (Actually, we were taught, in 1973, that only two out of 10,000 children were autistic). This very small number of children was the authors’ subject matter. Then, as Herbert and Silverman (and several others) point out, something happened. The numbers began to skyrocket. Depending on where one looks, there has been, during the past decade, a three-to-ten-fold increase and, according to Herbert and Silverman, the increase is REAL and not the result of more aggressive diagnosis (According to recent estimates, there has been a 30-fold increase in the rate of autism during the last 30 years). Such an increase cannot possibly be due to the influence of genes, since “there is no such thing as a genetic epidemic” (and, we might add, it is unlikely to be accounted for by changing child-rearing techniques!).
The condition described by Kanner, Eisenberg and Bettelheim was RARE, affecting perhaps 3 children in 10,000 (and perhaps no more than one or two!). Today, it is said to affect between 1 in 500 and 1 in 150, or even more! Furthermore, the diagnosis today is not identical with that of 50 years ago, so we cannot even be certain we are talking about identical phenomena. To make matters worse, many in the field consider other “disorders” such as “Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)” and various “learning disabilities” to be on a spectrum with autism. “Considered in its broadest terms”, write Herbert and Silverman, “this epidemic currently may affect from a few million to as many as 20 percent of U.S. children”.

In other words, we could be talking about one child out of every five!

This huge increase in autism rates coincides with the addition of two new thimerosal vaccines, as mentioned above (Sallie Bernard, “Thimerosal and autism: An emerging scandal”. www.safeminds.org). In 1999 the (US) FDA acknowledged that the amount of mercury in vaccines exceeded EPA safety guidelines and asked manufacturers to remove thimerosal. It turns out that no safety testing of thimerosal has ever been conducted. Over a thousand autism-thimerosal cases are before the US courts, with parents of autistic children suing a small group of pharmaceutical companies for the harm they allege has been caused by the thimerosal in the vaccines given to their children.
Rather than assisting parents with funding, or providing funds for scientific research into the possible connection, Sallie Bernard writes that Congress passed special legislation – the Homeland Security Act, signed into law by President Bush on 25 November, 2002 – containing a provision shielding the pharmaceutical companies from liability (A similar law was passed very recently). This effectively ends the lawsuits! In addition, the Department of Justice asked the special vaccine injury court to seal the records relating to the cases now pending, blocking public scrutiny of the vaccine manufacturers’ documents. Fortunately, this record-sealing order was eventually rescinded (the above information comes from an article by Sallie Bernard, Executive Director of Safe Minds – www.safeminds.org).

I have gone into so much detail to clarify what this ridiculous debate is about. It is certainly not about SCIENCE. Even less is it about an honest search for the truth. The parents of the millions of children whose lives have been ruined are devastated and angry. But our society has a way of deflecting the justified anger felt by people who have been so appallingly treated. In the autism debate the scapegoat is Bruno Bettelheim for blaming parents for causing their children’s autism (even though he did not do so) and, in particular, for “inventing” the term “refrigerator mother” to describe the mothers of autistic children (even though he did no such thing). Meanwhile the pharmaceutical companies are exonerated and millions of dollars are poured into genetic research.

So, what is really going on here? Why is so much time, energy and money being spent on proving that “schizophrenia”, “autism”, “depression”, “bipolar disorder”, “ADHD”, “dyslexia” and so on are genetically caused diseases/illnesses/disorders of the brain? Why do we even have a debate about something that seems, on the face of it, to be so clear and obvious (that human beings are born with a genetic make-up and that human beings are born into and spend their lives in an environment of some sort)? Herbert and Silverman provide what seems to me to be a valid answer: “That human actions, rather than genes, might be responsible for compromising the health of a significant proportion of a whole generation is so painful as to be, for many, unthinkable”. What they say about “autism” can be generalised to “mental illness” in general – as well as to “disorders” like “ADHD”, or “dyslexia” or “learning disabilities”:

“To cling to a genetic explanation for autism … is a desperate attempt to maintain the illusion that one lives in a comfortable and rational world where all is basically well, new chemicals and technologies always mean progress, experts are always objective and thorough and authorities can be trusted”.

The alternative is to face the painful realisation that all may not be well; that the way we live (including the nuclear family) may be harmful to ourselves and our children; that (childcare arrangements), preschools and schools might damage those we love; that the corporate world in which we earn our living may be destructive to workers and toxic to our planet; that our institutions may be self-serving and corrupt rather than serving our interests; that the “experts” – doctors, teachers, economists, psychiatrists, lawyers, politicians and others – may not know what is good for us or even that they may deliberately deceive us for financial gain. To face such a prospect means becoming conscious. It also means becoming responsible for our own wellbeing and that of our fellow human beings. The essential restructuring of our society and its institutions can only take place once we have chosen consciousness. It may not be easy. We may not find permanent inner peace. But we will be alive.

References

Virginia Axline (1964). Dibs: In search of self (Penguin Books, 1971, 1975).

Bruno Bettelheim (1949). “Harry – A study in rehabilitation”. Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology, 1949, Volume 44: 231-265.

Bruno Bettelheim (1955). Truants from life – The rehabilitation of emotionally disturbed children (New York: The Free Press, 1955).

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Note: William Glasser’s (2003) Warning: Psychiatry can be hazardous to your mental health (New York: Harper Collins, 2003) is also well worth the effort to read. The Appendix (pp229-237) lists several important books, published during the past decade, debunking the concept of “mental illness” and the dangers of medication to treat so-called “mental disorders”, together with alternative approaches to the problems of living.

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Creating conscious relationships

Our seminar on conscious relationships begins on Saturday morning (11 March) at 10 am
(http://www.sydneytraumahealing.org/Seminars.htm. It will be very small and intimate. I don't have the time to write at length right now, but we just realised we haven't introduced Tracy yet. Tracy is our very dear friend, someone we've known for eight years, who joined us as co-facilitator about eight months ago. She is a wonderful complement to Harbans and myself. She brings a vitality and effervescence that Harbans and I can only marvel at.

Tracy is the mother of two teenagers and parenting her children has been her primary role for the last sixteen years. During that time, she trained as a breastfeeding counsellor with the Australian Breastfeeding Association. She performed a wide variety of duties including telephone counselling and one-to-one counselling, running local groups, giving community talks and undertaking treasury functions. She has been extremely active in her children's schooling, undergoing training to assist students in a number of literacy programs. She is a qualified adult literacy tutor. She is currently a part-time carer of an elderly woman suffering with dementia. Tracy has returned to full-time study and is completing a Diploma in Community Services. She has attended many personal growth seminars and workshops - Harbans and I actually met her at one - and regularly attends a spiritual group which she affectionately calls her "Angel" group because its focus is working with one's guardian angels. Tracy has a passion for singing and attends a weekly jazz singers' workshop. She loves working with people.

Harbans and I consider it one of our life's blessings to have Tracy as our friend. We look forward with excitement, enthusiasm and passion, but also with deep love, to sharing this coming weekend with her.

Thursday, March 02, 2006

Spirituality and consciousness

In the last two posts I wrote about experiences that appear to be spiritual but are in fact something else (some call them ego experiences - I would probably call them "personal" to differentiate them from the "transpersonal"; but words don't really help us much here I'm afraid). Some, though not all, of what I have been attempting to get at has been examined by David Tacey, in a book called Jung and the New Age (Brunner Routledge, 2001). Amongst many important observations, Tacey points out that genuine spiritual experience, the type that Jung had spent much of his life studying and describing, does not come easy. He quotes many, many examples from participants in the "New Age" writing, talking and acting as if spiritual experience were easy to come by, indeed, as something that can be purchased in the spiritual market place. For Jung, on the other hand, it had required struggle, especially personal struggle to unite the opposites within himself. I'm not sure if Tacey actually said this or merely implied it, but the "New Age" idea that we can simply meditate away the wounds caused by painful (and especially traumatic) experiences, or that we can simply heal them by bathing them in light and/or by just accepting that they happened, forgiving those that hurt us and just letting them go by saying "the past is the past" and "it is no longer present" is a very dangerous illusion indeed.

To save time, I quote below from various issues of the Conscios Living Seminars website (www.consciouslivingseminars.com ), as a way of retelling something of my own spiritual journey:

(From CLS Journal January 2003) "We go through life in a state of slumber. We are asleep, to varying degrees. Normal life is a state of sleep. Some have said it is a hypnotic state. That's an equally accurate way to conceive of it. Given the characteristics of the modern world, given its economic structure, given the political, legal and other institutions (such as preschools and schools!) that are necessitated by the economic structure, this hypnotic state, this state of being asleep, is assured.

The process of awakening can begin in an infinite variety of ways. Most, if not all, of these involve pain and suffering. Sickness, or death, or a financial crisis, perhaps. Or, simply, some experience which shatters our everyday illusion of stability, or permanence. Our everyday reality, our 'world-taken-for-granted' is suddenly shattered and our dream becomes a nightmare. There may be less dramatic ways to wake up, but I am not convinced that it is really possible. If growth can be pain-free, I have not seen the evidence".

(From CLS Journal February 2003): "Becoming conscious – or waking up – can begin at any time. Alternatively, we can remain unconscious – or asleep, that is to say, normal. This is the safest bet of all. The security that comes from remaining in our normal, everyday hypnotic state is comforting. Safe, secure and comfortable. This is 'the unexamined life'. It may lack the 'highs', but it also lacks the lows. We give up passion, vitality and joy, but we gain peace, security, safety and comfort.

My own awakening began relatively early, at the age of sixteen. Twenty-odd years of turmoil followed. Then, some extraordinary experiences, a brief period of magnificent illumination and, after that, the return of normal life, but with heightened awareness. Between the ages of 11 and 16, with my mother’s so-called '(mental) illness', I lived a nightmare existence. With her death in November, 1963 came peace – a calmness I had never known. Then, out of the blue, the sudden awareness of death and mortality. Depression. I was in my final year of high school, attending boarding school in a town in the NSW Southern Highlands. This was during 1964. Out of despair, I discovered the nineteenth century romantic poets, especially Shelley and, through Shelley, I fell in love with philosophy (I also came to understand and appreciate my first Shakespearean play – Macbeth).

Spurred on by a desperate need to discover the meaning of life – but especially to solve the riddle of God’s existence – I enrolled at uni the following year to study Philosophy. For the next three years (1965-1967) I pursued my questions about life, falling in love with existentialism, evolving a rather shallow understanding of Marxism and psychoanalysis and settling on the British empiricists, especially David Hume and...John Stuart Mill. And, it goes without saying, I loved the works of Rousseau.

From a love of philosophy – after failing and dropping out of uni, marrying and then returning to my studies – I fell in love with Psychology, pursuing this passion for the next 13 years. I described the process in my “story”. When I reached the end of my attempts to understand both myself and my world through this intellectual or rational process, I began my inner journey (November, 1984), a process, again, described in my “story”. This period of self-discovery (1984-1987) involved considerable pain. It also resulted in a period of joyful living. Then, back to the real world and, with that, more learning, more – and deeper – understanding. Unfortunately, more pain, too. But, unlike the pointless, needless, unnecessary suffering of the past, this was the pain that results from learning profound truths about the nature of life on our planet. I would say that this kind of pain is an essential component of growth on planet earth. And, throughout these past 15 years, moments of peace, moments of extraordinary connection and communion and occasional glimpses into the indescribable.

I don’t know whether I would want to 'prescribe' this for everyone, or even anyone. It is one way to awaken, to grow to consciousness. I’m quite sure there are other ways. But, so far as I am able to determine, they all involve some level of discomfort, some degree of dissatisfaction with our normal, everyday existence. And my experience – as well as what I have observed of others – leads me to believe that the idea that the process of waking up can be achieved 'easily and joyfully', without pain, is a dangerous illusion."

As I wrote in my "story", it was only in March 1988 that I began "to read books on spirituality and on the spiritual traditions of India, China and Japan. This was something I had deliberately avoided doing during 1984 to 1987, to ensure that my spiritual experiences were real and unforced, unaffected by my expectations. During this time (November 1984 to December 1987) I actually had several such experiences. These included communicating with my mother, who had died twenty years earlier, recalling several events preceding my conception and experiencing what ST called 'higher states of consciousness', including 'unity-consciousness'. These are, obviously, clumsy ways of naming unnameable experiences but this is, after all, the internet! The point is, I had experienced these things spontaneously; I had never read about them. Now - in March, 1988 - I began to read books on Taoism and Zen Buddhism (as well as a smaller number on what eventually came to be called 'Hinduism'), since these were the traditions that came closest to my own experiences. I was to continue reading this material over the next four years. It became especially important to me during the first two years of my community work with Aboriginal people (1989 to 1991), as I found myself confronted by the Machiavellian manoeuvrings of government officials who seemed determined to crush the spirit of the Aboriginal people I worked with. At times, my reading of Taoist and Zen Buddhist texts (together with the I Ching, the tarot and the runes) became essential for maintaining my sanity. As Jung wrote in 1948: 'It is a rare and shattering experience for (a human being) to gaze into the face of absolute evil'. A shattering experience is precisely what it was!...(B)y the time I met Harbans, I had come to a better understanding of the nature of such polarities as good and evil and had at least made a start to the process of acknowledging the worst as well as the best in myself".

(From CLS Journal March 2003): "As I mentioned earlier, my awakening began in early 1964, when I suddenly became aware of death. This led to despair and depression and, in this new state of consciousness, I discovered the English Romantic poet, Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792-1822) and, through Shelley, something called 'Philosophy'. I fell in love with philosophy, enrolled in a subject with that name the following year (1965) and began my intellectual journey. At the beginning of the 1965 academic year I enrolled in an eight-week extracurricular course of (lunchtime) lectures in 'existentialism'. Amongst the earliest precursors of 'modern, post-war existentialism' were, we were told, three nineteenth-century philosophers: Arthur Schopenhauer(1788-1859), Søren Kierkegaard (1813-1855) and Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (1844-1900). I quickly fell in love with the first two while finding Nietzsche fascinating but incomprehensible. I immediately bought and read a paperback called The Essential Schopenhauer, which comprised a selection of essays from a book originally published in 1851 and also read some excerpts from an earlier work by Schopenhauer, completed between 1814 and 1818. In addition, I read several commentaries on Schopenhauer. Until recently, I recalled very little of what I had read by or about Schopenhauer, remembering only that I was attracted by his pessimism. Yet now (March 2003), 38 years later, I have rediscovered what a wealth of insights this amazing genius had bequeathed the world. To my horror, amongst these are Schopenhauer’s reworking of what he had read in the Bhagavad Gita, the Upanishads and the Vedas. I say “to my horror” because I have no conscious memory of reading any of this material, even though some of it was actually underlined by me at the time! As late as last year, when I was writing my “story” for the website, I believed that my first exposure to (the ancient Indian philosophy which developed into what came to be called) 'Hinduism' did not occur until March, 1988. An important lesson!"

(From CLS Journal May 2003)

"Socrates (written Saturday, 22 February, 2003)

It seems as if everything took place in 1965. In that year, as part of my induction into first year Philosophy, I was introduced to Greek philosophy, especially as expressed by Socrates, Plato and Aristotle (even though Socrates never actually wrote anything). This aspect of the course was almost useless; we used poor translations of the original Greek; the commentaries provided were one-sided; and the lecturers presented these philosophers to us in a form that, for me at least, was devoid of meaning. Although I read Plato’s Republic for a second time for the Political Science component of Government II in 1967 and although I learned a little more from it on that occasion, I basically gave the Greeks away for the next thirty-odd years. Not until mid-2000 did I return to these philosophers – especially Socrates and Plato; this time, however, they almost blew me away by their relevance to things I had experienced since first reading them.
Socrates occupies a unique position in the Western world. He never wrote anything, yet his influence has been profound. A mystic and a sage whose wisdom has rarely been surpassed, his message to the world has been twisted almost beyond recognition by friend and foe alike. Both have turned him into a 'Western intellectual', when he was much more like a Taoist sage or an Aboriginal elder. Yet, even though Socrates speaks to us only through others, such as Plato, and even though the translations from the Greek have rendered him almost unrecognisable, a sympathetic reconstruction is possible. Plato has him say: 'I am subject to a divine or supernatural experience … It began in my early childhood – a sort of voice which comes to me' (Apology, 31d). While it is inconceivable that Socrates would ever have said this, the picture of Socrates as someone with direct access to such a voice is credible. First hand accounts of Socrates in various life situations generally convey a picture of a person who felt himself to be divinely guided and who acted like someone who was so guided, even in battle (he took part in several military campaigns when he was young).

As for the message that Socrates conveyed to his followers, it sounds so similar to what we find in the Vedas and Upanishads that one is tempted (as Schopenhauer did) to assume a direct influence from the latter. Whether this was the case or whether, as is more likely, sages and mystics of all ages and in all places simply “tune in” to the same truth, the similarities are striking. Socrates believed that a cosmic intelligence operated in the universe. Human beings were a part of this essence and had knowledge of the essential nature of the universe prior to being born and their essence continued to exist after death. All so-called 'learning' is a 'recollection' of what we already 'know'.

Socrates believed that the ordinary physical world of time and space was but an image or reflection of an ideal, perfect world. This was an ultimate, changeless reality. The process of what today we would call 'becoming enlightened' he called (in the English translation!) 'education'. As we grow, develop, learn, become educated (enlightened) we gradually acquire more and more 'knowledge' (ie consciousness or awareness) of the essential nature or reality (outside of time and space), that is, of the ideal or perfect world. This (what today we would call) expanded consciousness has nothing to do with ordinary sense-perception (seeing, hearing and so on) and nothing to do with merely verbal or rational or cognitive or intellectual knowledge or understanding. The nature of this perfect, ideal world is perfect love, perfect beauty, perfect justice and light. A person who has reached this state is called a 'lover of wisdom', that is, a 'philosopher' (philein = love; sophia = wisdom). A 'philosopher', for Socrates meant someone who was a genuine sage, an enlightened person, or a mystic. or a visionary. A philosopher is someone who is literally in love with truth. Such a person is characterised by what some schools of thought call 'the sixth state of consciousness'. In The Republic, Plato has Socrates teach that an ideal state is one governed by such people. These are people for whom the welfare of the whole is paramount".

I hope that, in trying to save time, I haven't lost the esssence of what I have been trying to say. For me, at any rate, the spiritual journey has been a highly personal one, one, further, which has not been free of pain, free of struggle. I obviously absorbed far more of the mysticism of the east, as well as that of ancient Greece, far earlier than I once acknowledged. But this material was just "stuff" bubbling away in my unconscious, until a series of experiences, over a twenty-yera period, reawakened them. At some point, healing of past wounds occurred. Then, experiences of transcendence, of the numinous. Then, reading ancient texts which enabled me to make some sense of these experiences. Then, more real life, personal experiences which challenged my new understanding. And yes, more pain, too. This is surely to be expected. If we are all connected, how can we avoid experiencing some of the enormous amount of pain in the world - unless we are unconscious?

To recap: We are essentially spiritual beings. We are born into a world that has lost its way, does not meet our essential human needs and, in this way, leads to unconsciousness, ill-health, sickness, dis-ease. At some point, there is the possibility of awakening, of becoming conscious, of healing. This requires, as a necessary condition, healing past trauma - including not only abuse, but neglect as well; this requires some pain, as we re-exerience past painful events in otder to let them go. We can not just "let them go". We need to relive them in a safe environment, express the emotions that were unable to be expressed at the time and then let them go and choose to live in the present. Genuine spiritual experiences will begin to occur spontaneously, without prompting from over-zealous "spiritual" gurus intent on ensuring that you experience what you're supposed to experience. Transpersonal, transcendent, numinous experiences of the divine, including the divinity of your fellow sentient (including human) beings will occur from time to time, as you continue your journey through life. You will occasionally experience moments of oneness with your children , your partner and your special friends - and, sometimes even with people you hardly know or don't know at all, or with other sentient beings. Sometimes you might even experience moments of union with all of creation. But don't expect this state to last, to be permanent. Life on this planet will involve downs as well as ups, pain as well as pleasure, moments of spiritual crisis as well as moments of spiritual ecstacy. If you have chosen to be conscious, you can not avoid pain and negativity any more than you can avoid pleasure and positivity. We are here to experience it all. And we are meant to do it in a spirit of playfulness. We are meant to laugh and sing and dance and have fun along the way. At least, that's how I see it.

"Spirituality" and unconsciousness - Part II

Although I should not need to say this, I hope it is understood that I was not talking about authentic spiritual experience in yesterday's post. There are genuine spiritual experiences and there are others, such as the ones I wrote about yesterday, which merely appear to be spiritual but are in fact something else. It is these latter that are dangerous, if they are mistaken for the real thing. That is when people can have breakdowns such as the ones I referred to yesterday.

Even "breakdowns", however, can be spiritual (See the earlier comment on the depression article in which the "breakdown" was actually a spiritual crisis. As such it was able to be handled with loving support). Psychiatry, of course, makes no such distinctions. An experience that involves the hearing of voices or the seeing of visions is taken to be a break with reality (the formal criterion which enables the Psychiatrist to designate it as "psychotic") whether it is pure fantasy (as it often is) or whether it is a genuine psychic phenomenon. There are no rules for distinguishing the two. If you are having such an experience you need a trusted friend who has your best interests at heart and who is open minded and open hearted, as well as possessing some skills and experience that are relevant to what you are experiencing. I have been in the situation of offering support to someone experiencing one of these breakdowns. So, too, has Harbans. We may not be able to define the difference in a philosophically adequate sense, but we can tell one from the other, at least with people whom we love.

My own experiences with phenomena that are sometimes called "psychic", sometimes "spiritual", sometimes "transcendental" and at other times "divine" - or are referred to as "altered states of consciousness" or "higher states of consciousness" - have convinced me that we are essentially spiritual beings. I generally do not allow myself to be drawn into discussions that begin with "What do you mean by "spiritual'?" Nor do I, in general, enter into abstract discussions of spirituality at all, including the crucial questions about what happens when we die or whether we have many lifetimes, what happens in between lifetimes or whether reincarnation is real or not. In our seminars and in one-to-one therapy sessions we deal with what people experience. Very rarely, we do past-life regressions, but more often we find there is sufficient material in this lifetime to work with (and, even, that focusing on a past life can be a distraction from what's going on in the present one). Our interest is in healing, which means growth, which implies awakening or becoming conscious. We avoid abstract discussion of spiritual questions because they very rarely, if ever, lead anywhere. We, ourselves (that is, Harbans and I) can only be effective if we are in what some might call an altered state of consciousness. In our everyday consciousness we can afford to be petty, or judgemental, for example. In our seminars we can not. We need to operate from - to use yet another word for our essential spiritual nature - Higher Self (if you like, our Atman). Yet another way of saying this is to say that we need to be an open channel for the divine energy of healing to flow through us.

Now none of this is going to be very helpful if you've never had such an experience. It's even less helpful if, never having had such an experience, you think you have. As I say, there are no rules to enable you to judge. If there were, I probaby would not be writing this article. At the end of the day, however, you are the best judge of your own experience, in spite of some of what has been written above. Your only real guide is your own inner wisdom, your own inner knowing, your own inner voice. What I have been saying, here and elsewhere, is that being born into and then living in what we like to call "the real world" (but especially modern society) makes it very difficult to hear this inner voice any more. For the most part, we are unable to differentiate this voice from all the other voices (those of our family, our culture, our school teachers, the mass media, doctors and scientists, and so on). This was the position I was in for most of the first 40 years of my life. I have told the story of my growth elsewhere and won't repeat it here. Everyone's story is different. Everyone's story is unique. The only universal theme is that our understanding and knowledge come from experience first and foremost. Reading, information in the form of concepts and philosophies come later, to help us conceptualise and make sense of our experience. It does not work very well in reverse. The other universal theme is the need for healing, removing some of the "rubbish" in order to enable our essential spiritual nature to manifest. As someone put it to me rather quaintly some 20 years ago, "It's like you need to get out of your own way".

I should add that there are at least two necessary ingredients in order for the kind of growth I am talking about to take place. Honesty and love (including compassion for yourself). Oh, yes - There is a third: Commitment.

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

"Spirituality" and unconsciousness

I have written a great deal about the ways in which the world in which we grow up ensures that we become (and then remain) unconscious. Perhaps much of what I have written is obvious, at least to people with a "left" or "radical" orientation. It may be equally obvious to anyone with a "spiritual" orientation, too. I would therefore like to say a few words about what I keep finding amongst people who practise various spiritual traditions and/or who operate within such a framework. This is what we wrote about it in the "Philosophy" page of our website (www.consciouslivingseminars.com ):

"Spirituality, the divine, God and religion

It may have become apparent by now that nothing has been written about the spiritual dimension, about higher states of consciousness, or the nature of religious experience, in spite of the role they have played in our (Harbans’s and Andrew’s) lives. There is a very good reason for this. Over the past few decades so many books have been written (or ancient ones republished) on these matters that it has become almost impossible to use spiritual concepts authentically and meaningfully. We believe that, as each of us becomes more aware or more conscious, we begin to have experiences for which terms like 'spiritual', 'religious' or 'divine' are appropriate. Both of us (Harbans and Andrew) have at times had such experiences. Both of us have occasionally experienced 'higher states of consciousness' such as what some have called 'Sixth state consciousness' or 'Love, illumination consciousness'. We believe that the time to talk about them - if, indeed we need to talk about them at all - is when we are in the experience or immediately following such an experience. Then, the words will be connected to the experience and this will be obvious to anyone listening to the person sharing such an experience. From such a space people will sometimes say things which, when heard with our normal consciousness, may sound bizarre, or uncaring or cruel. This is because these words, when connected to such experience, 'mean' something very different to the same words not so connected. As the Zen master said:

'Those who know do not speak.Those who speak do not know'.

If you have had such experiences you may 'connect' with various writings by different spiritual teachers. You may find that different concepts can equally adequately fit your experience. If you have not had such experiences you will simply confuse yourself or, worse, become one of the millions who 'talk the talk' but do not 'walk the walk'. We find it quite discomfiting to listen to such talk and do not wish to add fuel to this. So the emphasis, in all our groups, is on acknowledging, accepting and respecting your experience. That does not mean we have to agree with the intellectual content or that we have to condone actions that may flow from such experience. It simply means that whatever is going on for you at this moment is exactly what is going on for you at this moment, no more, no less. Our aim is to support people to grow to greater and greater levels of awareness, irrespective of the content of this awareness. This is conscious living".

Since writing the above (in mid-2002) I have become even more concerned at the misuse of spiritual language. If, for whatever reason, a person is unconscious, the nature of the protective mechanism used to conceal this unconsciousness makes little difference. But when someone uses spiritual concepts to hide such a state - and especially if they have been well trained and are articulate - it becomes both more difficult to spot and more difficult, therefore, to heal. The most dangerous situation of all, however, is when the level of "dissociation" is severe as a result of very painful or traumatic early-childhood (or later) experiences. Many spiritual traditions teach that these can be healed by positive thoughts or visualisations, by bathing them in "the light" and by various other similar techniques. This is not our experience. On the contrary, we have seen people have psychotic breakdowns as a result of the unresolved, unhealed wound beneath the veneer of a "spiritual" rationalisation. I will continue with this soon.